Today December 1st is World AIDS Day. For some, it is just another day. For others, it is a time to remember those who have fought the battle and lost, encourage those who continue to fight and educate to end AIDS in our lifetime. It is exciting to think that this once deadly diagnosis could actually be ended in my lifetime. I remember the early days of the HIV/AIDS panademic…
For me, I the lessons that I learned when I worked for the South Jersey AIDS Alliance are embedded in my mind. As a new “inexperienced” Social Worker and a recovering addict, I was the “crazy white lady” that stepped into Bridgeton wanting to help the world. Yes, that is what many of my clients thought of me and willing shared as we got to know each other. I didn’t see any of the people that walked through our doors as “diseased”, “hopeless” or less than. I saw them as people who because of their bad choices were sick. “There by the grace of God go I” was a constant reminder for me since I too had made many bad choices over the years. So what could I do in a little office (actually half a duplex) with little funding, the only paid staff, a handful of volunteers (who in many cases were also clients) and a heart that wanted to save them all. In the early years, AIDS was not a “manageable disease” for many it was a death sentence. It took babies from their mothers, it took moms and dads from their kids, it took people from all walks of life – yet no one talked about it. I can remember the first few funerals where the family said “they died of cancer” because they did not want their loved one to be remembered for the stigma that went with HIV/AIDS. That was the world that I dedicated many years of my professional life too – a total of about 15. Belinda grew up joining me in this battle to end the stigma of HIV/AIDS. She played with kids who were HIV-positive, she shared her toys, she helped with fundraising, as well as sorting and delivering holiday toys. She grew up with a passion for helping people that I admire.
Fast forward to today, as little is spoken about HIV/AIDS. It is now a manageable disease so we seldom hear the prevention message. There are medicines that can help to keep you going, so why worry, right? The theme for World AIDS Day 2014 is ““Focus, Partner, Achieve: An AIDS-free Generation.” We aren’t there yet but we are close. There are still 1.1 million people living with HIV in the US today. Only 1 in 4 people are making their way through the obstacles called health care and medications. Let’s not be complacent. Let’s continue to share how HIV can be transmitted. Let’s all work together for a day when there is an AIDS-Free Generation.
What are you willing to do to help? Today, I remember those who fought a great fight – Jackie Wise, Matt McCrossen, Sam, Maria and all of the others who walked through the doors of my office in Bridgeton and the other SJAA offices. I honor those who continue to fight especially Jeff, Donna and Veronica. They continue to inspire me with their strength and determination after 23 years.
Honor someone you know who is living with HIV/AIDS or who has lost the fight. Share their names so we too can honor them.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
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