We all have good intentions, right? You say you want to do something but you don’t. I don’t necessarily mean those really BIG things that you dream about; I am talking about those obtainable dreams. Maybe things don’t happen the way you want for a multitude of reasons. We have all been there, done that and probably have an unwanted t-shirt.
You start out with a clear vision or plan. Maybe it is a new kitchen (that’s one of mine), the next promotion or a full calendar (this one too). Maybe it is keeping your house clean – yes, I have grown attached to my dust bunnies.
You have or know the list of action steps necessary to make it happen. A plan written out and maybe it is even scheduled on your planner. Then STUFF happens – you procrastinate, fear creeps in, you get side tracked with life and the next thing you know that clear vision is a muddy mess.
Yes, I know that it may seem a little silly to compare DREAMS with cleaning the house but everyone’s vision is different. So no matter what your vision is I want you to consider doing these steps:
Step #1: Write down what you really want and why you want it. Are you looking to please someone else or is it something you really want? Set aside the doubts, the fears and the daily concerns. YOU and only you have the power to light the fire and get yourself moving.
Step #2: Set aside time to quietly and honestly answer the following questions. I know that this is probably really tough for you because as busy women, we never seem to have any time, right? But you can do it – I believe in you.
- What do I want?
- What is important to me about having it?
- How will my life change if I have it?
- How will I feel when I have it?
- Who else will be impacted by this achievement?
- How will those I love see me when I achieve this?
- Will I feel different about me? How?
- How will this change the outcome of my life or the lives of those I love?
Write the answers in a special spot – for some it may be a journal while for others it could be a spot on your phone or if live by your planner, maybe it is on there. You want it to be someplace that you can go to when you find that you are distracted or procrastinating.
Life is full of changes which sometimes means that your ‘what and why’ will change, too. Your special spot will be a great source of inspiration when life gets challenging.
Step #3: Follow through is the key even when things are hard. Motivation comes from within and when you know what you really want and why you want it – you are unstoppable. This inner power helps you to set boundaries to the things that distract you. It allows you to be ready for the things that challenge you on the journey to realizing your dreams!
So, whether your dream is a dream kitchen or a clean house or a new job or promotion or even to grow your current business remember to tap into that inner power. You said you will do XYZ but will you do it? You said you will see your vision become a reality but will you? What is holding you back?
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