Many DREAM BIG! For some it may be their own home, others it is retirement, maybe it is owning your own business or traveling the world. For some, they don’t know how to dream. I know it may sound crazy but I was one of those people (and some days still am). The struggles of life get in the way and you begin to limit your dreams. Or, maybe you don’t dream at all because you can’t see the forest for all of the trees.A DREAM is defined as “contemplating the possibility of doing something”. Being able to envision it is the first step. I DREAM BIG (most days) in my business and my personal life but I have to admit it is with hesitation. No hate mail, please. I second guess things all the time which leads me to FAITH. FAITH is believing in things you can not see. I know I have talked about this before but I think this is a new take on an old theme.
Some days, do you feel like you are a hamster on a wheel? Running and running, doing the same thing day after day, the same way – expecting different results. We dream of how we would like things to be but we continue to do things the same way – getting the same results and only occasionally reaching our DREAMS! God (or your Higher Power) has dreams for us – he has a plan and despite our best efforts to do things our way, he will prevail. Honestly, I am not sure what direction this blog is taking but I am hoping it touches someone’s heart.
For years, my professional (business) DREAM has been to mentor women connecting them with the resources necessary to help them reach their personal, professional and financial goals. When I look back on my professional career, there are times I feel like I have reached my dream. When I was at South Jersey AIDS Alliance, I worked with women helping them through the struggles of living life with their HIV status while raising their kids. When I was at Bethel, working with an underserved populations, it was a little tougher but we were able to help many women grow and prosper in the community. When I started my Thirty One business, and my blog, I wondered if the dream had changed or was there just another path for it to take?
Health struggles created fear and doubt in me – more than the usual. I am blessed to be a part of leadership with Thirty One. Another opportunity to work with women and DREAM BIG. My definition of mentoring has changed slightly. It has become more about inspiring others to dream, helping to build their confidence, setting goals (large or small) and then reaching for them.
The truth is dreaming with a lack of Faith is not a good combination. I dream but those inner gremlins like to test my faith. Dreaming combined with Faith will allow you to reach those dreams. I am not saying there won’t be struggles along the way but those struggles are blessings in disguise helping you to reach your dream. I tell my team all of the time “I believe in you even when you don’t believe in yourself”. Why is it so easy to believe and encourage others yet we find it so hard to do ourselves (or at least I do)?I am dreaming BIG but my Faith gets a little shaky. I have heard if you CLAIM IT, it will be yours. Do you struggle with this concept? Do you feel like you “don’t deserve the dream”? As I get ready for the next hurdle in my MS journey, I wonder where my dream will go.
Do you have dreams? Is your FAITH strong enough to help you reach those dreams? TRUST and BELIEVE God’s plan will help you reach your DREAM as long as you have FAITH in what you can not see.
I hope this was blog strikes a nerve with someone and has helped you. As for me, I am continuing to DREAM BIG, those Super Size DREAMS where my FAITH stands firm in God’s promise.
Any good words of wisdom on how to get off the hamster wheel and lean on FAITH to reach my DREAMS?
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!