- Identify the what happened to cause the change
- Why did it happen
- How can I use this for my personal growth
- What changes can I make to improve in the future
- Where can I find help or who can help
I would like to take a moment and wish a Happy Father’s Day to dads. Today will be bitter sweet as I remember my dad and grandfather treasuring the moments with my hubby.
Thank you Gwen Smith for today’s message…..
Our hotel room had a small balcony that overlooked the swimming pool. Early one lazy vacation morning, I grabbed my journal, Bible, and a fresh cup of coffee then headed to the balcony for some quiet time.
As I settled in, movement by the pool caught my eye. I watched as a maintenance man approached a palm tree and briskly pulled a brown, life-less branch from underneath the green leaves. Oddly, before he pulled the dead branch off, I hadn’t even noticed it was there.
After he pulled it off, however, the palm tree looked fresh and vibrant.
The pruning made such a difference!
Jesus spoke to His disciples and said,
I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. You are already clean because of the word I have spoken to you. Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.
I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned. If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you. This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples. (John 15:1-8, NIV)
Whom we spend time with really matters.
And what we say and do and how we say and do it also really matters.
Stay with me here! Don’t let the familiarity of this Scripture fade the impact it has on you.
I understand to my core how horrible it feels when my walk and my talk do not line up. Withered branches in my heart constantly need to pulled off and thrown away. You too?
In order to experience the blessings and power of God’s Spirit in our lives we must root our faith deep in the soil of God’s Word and then allow His truth to produce fruits that are ripe with evidence of His love. These fruits are clearly seen (or not) at the intersection of our faith and our actions. I’ve found that when I have those I-just-want-to-scream-because-everyone-in-the-world-is-on-my-last-nerve days God meets me with His grace when I whisper His name.
God will deepen the roots and increase the fruits of your faith as you spend time talking to Him early in the morning over a hot mug of coffee. When you pray and worship on the way to work or on your powerwalk. When you feel a prick of conviction in your heart about that behavior – or about that response – that tone – that act of disobedience. When you call out to Him for patience and strength as your teenager slams his door in rebellion – or when your adult daughter “forgets the morals she was raised with” and moves in with her boyfriend – or when frustrations mount up at work.
Love. Joy. Peace. Patience. Kindness. Goodness. Faithfulness. Gentleness. Self control. To bring glory to God, this fruit of His Spirit must be seen in our lives.
Unfortunately, we have a keen ability to rationalize our less-than-fruitful behaviors.
But he… But she… But they… I just can’t…
Fortunately, God doesn’t expect us to behave like this without Him. In fact, we simply can’t. Apart from Christ, we can do nothing. Remember? (v5) But when we remain in Him – when we seek Him, obey Him, savor His presence, live for His glory, and prioritize Him above all else – we can and will make a big impact for God and experience the joy and peace we all long for.
The maintenance man at the resort didn’t pull the branch off to hurt the palm tree.
He pruned it to increase its beauty, health, and vibrancy. God does the same for us. He prunes His children to increase our beauty, health and vibrancy for our good and for His glory – to make us more useful to Him and more fruitful.
Pause to ponder this question: Are there any dead branches hanging on your tree?
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
Some time ago, I did a blog post on packing a blessing bag…… It is something I wanted to do but just never seemed to get to. This post inspired someone to make it her mission.
I met Maxine through this “purse gig”. She was on my team for a little bit. She and I stayed in touch over the last few years by praying for each other and just being there for moral support. She reached out to me to ask for some suggestions on growing a ministry which is near and dear to her heart. Here is Maxine’s story in her own words…..
Awhile back I decided to do bags for homeless people. Nothing elaborate just simple items like a toothbrush, toothpaste, small soaps, a pen, a little note pad, a pair of socks, a razor, a pack of Kleenex, a granola bar, some cheese crackers, small snacks, hand sanitizer, and a rain poncho. I was working as a home health care aide and traveled on the bus every day. I always carried a couple with me and if I came across someone in need I would give them one . I don’t put cash in them simply because you just never know. Many people hustle for money for other things. Fast forward to now. I’m driving for Lyft and I come across a good number of people so I started doing it again. Handing bags out to those who are in need – usually when I stop at a traffic light. You can kind of tell who’s legit and who’s not when you hand it to them. But regardless, I try to help everyone I can. I use ziplock bags to hold the items. I want to continue this ministry but I am struggling. I come across a great number of people every day while I’m out driving. I’ve been doing this all out of pocket! The time has come when I can no longer afford to do it and it is breaking my heart . We are ourselves are living in a hotel. God has blessed up and we get through day by day. He makes a way! Even when I cannot see it, He makes a way. I am reaching out to others for donations – monetary and for items to fill the bags.
The hotel where we are staying has offered to do some extra soaps and shampoos to help. I am reaching out to churches and other organizations to see if they can help with individually packaged snacks and things. But there is still a gap. The need is so great….
I am reaching out to my readers and my friends. Won’t you consider helping? Maxine has set up a PayPal account to collect monetary donations (https://paypal.me/maxineniemeier?locale.x=en_US). Every little bit helps. She lives in Chicago, so if you have any suggestions or contacts please let us know. I’m trying to help her keep her ministry alive….
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ.
Confidence. There are days when we feel we don’t even know the meaning of the word. I long for the days when I had some. I struggle to remember when it was and what it felt like. It is hard to stay confident when we feel so weak. I believe God as a plan for me, yet I often feel incapable of caring it out (or sometimes I don’t even know what it is).
When I used to wear titles like “mom” or “Social Worker” or “employee”. I had confidence most days to do my job. I knew what needed to be done and did it. When left to be “Hope”, the confidence quickly fades. Comparison steals joy. Inner gremlins run around in my head with thoughts of “you aren’t good enough”. It is those times when I have to step outside of ME and rely on my Higher Power. The Serenity Prayer helped to get me through the struggles in my early years of recovery . I use it today just as I did then.
It is important we realize where confidence comes from. Our confidence comes from the God. It comes from no-where else. He alone gives the kind of strength necessary to meet every challenge. The things He overcame causes our struggles to pale in comparison. If we believe in God (or a Higher Power), then we will have confidence to succeed.
What are some of your struggles? Share them with us so we can keep you in our prayers…..
Today’s thought: I can do anything I set my mind to because of Christ in me!
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
Today is Thankful Thursday. I know the rest of the social media world thinks of today as “Throwback Thursday” but today I want to be “thankful”.
I am thankful for:
- My Mom who loves me unconditionally
- Being a child of divorce
- My loving hubby
- Being a mom
- My guardian angels who always guide me
- A family who supports me despite my faults and bad decisions
- Mistakes I made in high school which changed my life
- Mistakes I made in college which shaped my future
- The variety of jobs as I looked for me
- The friends who have come for a season and those who have stayed
- My addiction
- My relapse and recovery
- My lack of confidence
- My business and its roller coaster journey
- My weightloss struggle
- My love of writing
- My passion for helping others
- My rocky walk with God
- My MS
- The rocky and winding road to find myself
- and al of the other good, bad and ugly parts of my life
My life has not been perfect, but today, I am deciding to view it through the lens of thankfulness and gratitude. For it is those things which have helped to shape me. It is those imperfections which have helped me to become the woman I am today. Some days those same things take me on a dark journey of negativity BUT today is NOT one of them.
TODAY, I am thankful for the struggles because without them I would not be able to make a difference in the life of someone else. I would not be able to be compassionate. I would not have the desire to make others smile.
TODAY, I am thankful for a loving God who not only has forgiven me for my mistakes but continues to guide me. I have faith and trust with Him, all things are possible.
So, what are you thankful for today? Share with us and let’s celebrate our imperfections together.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!