Thank you Sharon Jaynes for today’s message.
I sat on my porch with my Bible in my lap and a hot mug of steamy coffee in my hand. Early morning is my favorite time of day. Just me, Jesus, and a smattering of birds.
I closed my Bible and looked out across the backyard. My eyes landed on a rounded mound of fur nestled in the grass under the willow tree.
I got up and moved in for a closer look. My heart sank as I discovered what appeared to be a curled-up baby fawn lying lifeless in the grass. Probably the same fawn my neighbor had seen nursing from its mom the day before. My heart broke. I understand the circle of life, but still. A baby fawn lay dead in my yard. Most likely the target of the coyote I’d seen roaming around.
I couldn’t get close enough to see the wound. Sometimes that is the way of things.
I did get close enough to see the sunlight passing through the velum-like ears, the intricate spots on its back, and the Bambi-like eyelashes resting on a perfectly shaped snout. I would have to wait until Steve got home to take care of the situation. I didn’t have the nerve.
All morning long my mind returned to the lifeless form lying in the sun. Hours passed. At noon I looked out of the window and the still fawn remained unmoved. Untouched. Undisturbed. I couldn’t stand it. I had to know what had happened to it. So I mustered up my courage and made my way to the fawn. Three feet away. Stop. No signs of an attack. I inched closer.
Finally, I knelt down by the beautifully crafted creature, admiring God’s handiwork. But I couldn’t see what had killed it.
“What happened to you, little deer?” I whispered.
Suddenly, the fawn’s head popped up! Startled eyes stared at mine…wide-eyed. Me like a deer caught in the headlights. The fawn simply caught. I fell back on my haunches! And time stood still for a moment as we stared at each other in disbelief!
Finally, the fawn sprang to its feet, wobbled a bit, and scampered off like a drunken sailor. I sat in the grass and laughed, and laughed, and laughed. So the fawn wasn’t dead after all. It had simply found a bit of grass and fallen asleep…until almost noon.
After my heart stopped pounding in my chest, God spoke to my heart, Sometimes things are dead, and sometimes they just need to be woken up.
I pondered those words for the rest of the day. I called a friend who was struggling in her marriage—in a very bad way. The sort of way that leaves you wondering if it will survive. I told her the story.
Sometimes things are dead, and sometimes they just need to be woken up.
Sometimes a marriage is dead, and sometimes it just needs to be woken up.
Sometimes a friendship is dead, and sometimes it just needs to be woken up.
Sometimes a dream is dead, and sometimes it just needs to be woken up.
I think of how God told the prophet Ezekiel to speak to the valley of dry bones. “Prophesy to these bones and say to them, ‘Dry bones, hear the word of the Lord! This is what the Sovereign Lord says to these bones: I will make breath enter you, and you will come to life. I will attach tendons to you and make flesh come upon you and cover you with skin; I will put breath in you, and you will come to life. Then you will know that I am the Lord.’” Ezekiel 37:4-6 (NIV)
I imagine Ezekiel felt pretty silly talking to those dry bones. And honestly sometimes I feel pretty silly obeying God and speaking life into the dry bones of some of my situations.
So here’s my word for you and me today.
For my friend struggling in her marriage…
For my friend who cries for her adult son who walked away from God…
For my friend who longs to cuddle up with a good husband rather than a good book…
Don’t assume the dream is dead. Sometimes it just needs to be woken up. Don’t give up too soon.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
Thank you Arlene Pellicane for today’s message….
Wouldn’t it be amazing to have a hope button? Something you could just press when you felt pessimism and misery weighing you down?
Friend, you have a button like this available for your use. It’s nestled in between despair and the dawning of hope recorded in the book of Lamentations. The writer, Jeremiah the prophet, is utterly broken. Jerusalem, the City of David, had been attacked and destroyed. Jeremiah sees no hope of restoration, wholeness, or safety.
He cries out to God with many complaints such as “he has besieged me and surrounded me with bitterness and hardship” (v. 5), “he has weighed me down with chains” (v. 7), and “he has trampled me in the dust” (v. 16). Jeremiah is remembering all that went wrong and his soul is depressed and despondent.
Yet somehow, he reaches for the hope button in verse 21 and it becomes his turning point:
“Yet this I call to mind and there I have hope…”
What is the “this” that Jeremiah is calling to mind? We find it in verses 22-23:
“Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.”
Jeremiah is shifting his focus from the rubble around him to the fact that he is still standing. He remains unconsumed because of God’s great love. “Compassions” is plural illustrating how God showers us with new compassion every morning. Even though Jerusalem laid in ruin, the Word of God lasts forever.
When Jeremiah pressed the hope button – recalling God’s great love and compassion – he could say in the midst of grief, “I have hope. God is my portion and He is enough.”
Have you felt hopeless in a particular area of your life lately? It’s time to press the hope button. You’re still here. God’s mercies are for you today, and they are waiting to bless you tomorrow.
When I went away to college, I was discouraged and miserable because I felt lost without my family, friends, and all things familiar. I cried most days for the first few weeks. I did however have a Christian roommate with a flair for art. She painted our dorm room walls with Bible verses. Guess what she painted? Lamentations 3:22-23 which reminded me every morning when I opened my eyes that God’s compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is His faithfulness.
The next time you find yourself sitting in a heap of discouragement, press the hope button. Surround yourself with the promises of God. Recall His faithfulness and refresh your faith.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
Thank you to Lisa Morrone for today’s message…
Last week, while selecting some avocados in the produce aisle, I heard a loud gasp which caused my attention to be diverted to a woman who had just started an avalanche of sorts over by the oranges. As she restacked the fruit I distinctly heard her mutter, “Stupid girl! How could you be so clumsy?” In that moment I imagined her as a five year old child being berated by her mother, in the same tone, for the same offense.
From an early age, I remember learning that spoken words have power, both to hurt and to heal. My mom taught me to use the words that came out of my mouth with care, particularly when they were directed towards others. What I did not understand then was that the way we talk to ourselves can have just as much power to transform our minds—in both good and bad ways.
In the first testament, the Bible contains an historical timeline of accounts surrounding King David, beginning in his childhood and culminating with his death. David, like you and I, encountered some great highs and some equally low lows. In today’s Scripture, we find David battling with what I believe to be borderline depression. He was tired of being chased by his enemies, tired of being misunderstood, and likely tired of waiting for God’s promises to come to fruition. Can you relate?
Buried in the words of Psalm 42 is a valuable lesson on self-speak that we would do well to put into practice. David knows he’s feeling particularly low. So he wisely acknowledges and labels his feelings. But then David uses the power of his own words to construct a ladder which he uses to climb his downcast spirit out of the pit of despair he’s found himself in.
Here are the four rungs David put in place:
HOPE: He looks his despair squarely between the eyes and directs himself to “Put your hope in God.”
PRAISE: Next David invokes a new (contrary) attitude by saying, “for I will yet praise him.”
AUTHORITY: He reminds himself who his Lord is by identifying Him as, “my Savior and my God.”
RECOLLECTION: Lastly, David takes a decisive walk down memory lane when he declares, “therefore I will remember you”—which I am sure brought him back to thoughts of himself as a boy killing a lion and then the giant, Goliath, and having escaped from the tip of Saul’s spear a time, or three.
Do you feel in a state of despair today? Have you been passively listening to (and agreeing with) all the negative self-talk that comes along with it? Do not lose heart—USE YOUR WORDS! It’s time you quit listening to yourself, and start talking back to yourself instead. Speak out transformative words of hope and praise. Remind yourself aloud who your Lord is and recount the many times He has redeemed your circumstances, been true to His promises, and shown His kindness towards you.
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!
As we close the month of February, I want to share one last thing in honor of International Boost Your Self-Esteem Month!
Remember you deserve to be happy, truly happy with a joy which comes from within. Believe in yourself just as others believe in you. See yourself through their eyes. You are AWESOME. Feel it. Believe it. And know you deserve it.
I don’t know about you BUT I struggle with self-esteem – from the comparison game in my business to still seeing the 295 pound me instead of the new 175 pound me. I practice visualizing, where you want to be every day, then take the steps to make it a reality. It isn’t easy but I am determined to reach my goals even though they scare the HELL out of me!
Someone suggested I write a letter to the future me so I could see how far I have come. It also helped me to visualize the future and how it feels to reach my goals. Have you ever written a letter to future you? Why not try it? Make sure it contains positive affirmation of the goals you want to achieve. Remember, the Law of Attraction?
Here is my letter to Hope 2.0 telling her how proud I was of all she has accomplished in her life:
Dear Hope 2.0:
I am so proud of all you have accomplished in the last 5 years:
- Your office is organized. I am glad you finally have a part-time assistant to help with the busy work. The family room looks AMAZING. I know your team loves hanging out with you and learning all of your great business tips.
- Where did you say your last cruise went to? WOW! I know hubby loves the fact you can take a vacation every year and you treat. What a great way to say thank you to him for taking care of you every day. Of course, those mini getaways are nice too. You can never have enough of them.
- Your team has grown by over 100 girls. Having hubby there when they celebrated your accomplishments on stage was the best part. I know you cried because he never wanted to enter the pink bubble but he was so proud of you. He finally sees your business as a business and the impact you are having on others.
- Your calendar is always full. Your hostesses are scheduling their next party so they never miss out on getting on your calendar
- Your Annual Hostess Appreciation party has become the talk of the town. In 5 years, it is the must attend end of the year event
- The many charities you have helped with your seasonal events for kids and families are a blessing. Don’t forget the multiple fundraisers you hold every month. Not only are you helping organizations find discretionary money but you are also helping people who are struggling. You never forget where you came from – a homeless, addict who just wanted to please everyone. By remembering, you are able to encourage others
- You have inspired so many on your team to reach for their dreams, to overcome their inner gremlins and as a result their lives are changed forever
- Your willingness to share your office systems, your party ideas, presentations and even allow consultants to tag along with you whether they are on your team or not is a great example of a leader.
I want you to remember success is always within your reach. There will be struggles but it simply means there are lessons to be learned. Your journey is yours alone but others can learn from it. Comparison is not in the plan.
I am not there yet BUT I am on the road to being Hope 2.0. I am not waiting for “when” or “if”, I am claiming the blessings NOW. I have seen things change in my business since I did this exercise – thank you Eryka. Give it a chance, what have you got to loose. You deserve to have all of the blessings waiting for you. I can’t wait to celebrate your successes.
What about you? What would your letter look like? Share your thoughts with us…
Have a ThirtyOne-derful day!